Monday, April 14, 2008

Dictionary Meaning

Oxford:
love-
n. 1 deep affection or fondness. 2 sexual passion. 3 sexual relations. 4 a beloved one; sweetheart (often as a form of address). b colloq. form of address regardless of affection. 5 colloq. person of whom one is fond. 6 affectionate greetings (give him my love). 7 (in games) no score; nil. —v. (-ving) 1 feel love or a deep fondness for. 2 delight in; admire; greatly cherish. 3 colloq. like very much (loves books). 4 (foll. by verbal noun, or to + infin.) be inclined, esp. as a habit; greatly enjoy (children love dressing up; loves to run).  fall in love (often foll. by with) suddenly begin to love. for love for pleasure not profit. for the love of for the sake of. in love (often foll. by with) enamoured (of). make love (often foll. by to) 1 have sexual intercourse (with). 2 archaic pay amorous attention (to). not for love or money colloq. not in any circumstances. [Old English]

Cambridge:
love- to have strong feelings of affection for another adult and be romantically and sexually attracted to them, or to feel great affection for a friend or person in your family:
I love you.
Last night he told me he loved me.
I've only ever loved one man.
I'm sure he loves his kids


Wikipedia:

The English word love can have a variety of related but distinct meanings in different contexts. Often, other languages use multiple words to express some of the different concepts which English relies mainly on love to encapsulate; one example is the plurality of Greek words for "love". Cultural differences in conceptualizing love thus make it doubly difficult to establish any universal definition.[4]

Although the nature or essence of love is a subject of frequent debate, different aspects of the word can be clarified by determining what isn't "love". As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more emotionally intimate form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, though other definitions of the word love may be applied to close friendships in certain contexts.

When discussed in the abstract, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf. narcissism).

In addition to crosscultural differences in understanding love, ideas about love have also changed greatly over time. Some historians date modern conceptions of romantic love to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages, though the prior existence of romantic attachments is attested by ancient love poetry.[5]

Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love". Bertrand Russell describes love as a condition of "absolute value", as opposed to relative value. Theologian Thomas Jay Oord said that to love is to "act intentionally, in sympathetic response to others, to promote overall well-being".

2 comments:

Wild Strawberry said...
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Wild Strawberry said...

Though Im not very good at explaining things and its not even Im explaining what love is or how to tackle ur love but all Im doing is sharing an experience....
I have been into a relationship months back and somehow we both used to love each other a lot although nothing were common between us , nothing that is. And sometimes we used to hate each other for that, we used to had long time fights followed by a series of breakups and then one fine day it was all over we drew the line there....
Now he is busy with someone else ..his profile says that he is commited but still I dont know why I still feel for him and why I get bothered so easily.......
And I dont even know why Im throwing all this shit o'er here but somehow I feel like asking what is it then the feeling that I still have for him???? Isn't it love??? Then why he has to leave me????